3 Difficult Texts That You Will Get From Girls

In this guide, we will show you how to text girls and handle a few real life texting scenarios, where the guy didn’t know how to respond. You are likely to encounter a variation of these difficult texts at some point– so definitely keep reading.

Scenario 1: girl makes fun of your joke

how to text a girl who makes fun of you

This is a Hinge conversation where a guy made a pretty corny joke. That itself is typically not the dealbreaker, what really matters is what you do after. We can see what the guy was contemplating responding, which would’ve been the final nail in the coffin. A good response would need to make light of the situation, basically treating it like a shit test. For example “it wasn’t my best, but I like to start slow.”

Here are some great responses FireTexts generated

1). “You’re just mad I didn’t use any cow emojis.”

2). “You just don’t appreciate a good moo-ment”

3). “Well, they can’t all be winners”

These would all do the trick.

Scenario 2: girl starts firing shots at you

how to respond over text to a girl whose calling you out

This is an interesting scenario. The girl is pretty aggressive in her first message. This is either because that’s her style of flirting or she’s projecting her bad experiences onto you. Either way, the guy’s first response is actually spot on. He doesn’t get aggressive or start arguing with her. And you can see that she becomes a lot sweeter in her next set of messages.

It boils down to what I said which is that she’s had bad experiences with guys who look like him, and is projecting. Unfortunately, he makes a big mistake here by rewarding her attitude & offering a date. A much better response would’ve been something like “is this your way of flirting with me ;).” That would get her to backtrack even further.

Let’s see what FireTexts suggests

1). “Ah, the good ol’ douche bags of Hinge”

2). “Ah, you’ve had a lot of bad experiences here?”

3). “It’s ok, I’m used to being called attractive”

4). “It’s ok, I’m sure we can find a way to get over this”

Any one of these would do the trick and help take this conversation, which started negative, and turn it into a positive one.

Scenario 3: girl wants to know what you’re looking for

how to text a girl who asks what are you looking for

Anyone who spent time on dating apps has seen some variation of this message a bunch of times. The girl wants to know what you’re looking for, and most importantly, if it meshes with what she wants. This is tricky if you’re looking for something casual, because you don’t want to straight out lie to the girl, but you also don’t want to fuck it all up

I might say something like “Meaningful connections are good, especially if they lead to a happy relationship. I’m also looking for a cool girl I have chemistry with, maybe some kinky sex and cuddles.” This would most likely work as that middle ground where you’re not lying to the girl but also not coming off as a total fuckboy.

Let’s see what FireTexts thinks

1). “Same. We should get together and see how the chemistry is”

2). “A connection that’s so strong, the Titanic would be jealous. But in all seriousness, something similar”

3). “Ah, same, I’m looking for the Selena Gomez to my Justin Bieber”

Conclusion

No matter how difficult it may seem, every texting scenario has a solution. You can utilize the examples here to better handle your own dating challenges. Or, if you prefer to have all of it done for you, in an effective manner, then check out FireTexts. This way, you never send the wrong text again. Download for free